Based in Shanghai, Dao of Love helps people explore and experience their intimate relationships.

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Our Events

From Conflict to Connection – a Foundation Training in Communication Skills

A two day workshop on Saturday and Sunday 18th and 19th Sep 2010

This workshop will cover an introduction to NVC (see Our Approach) and apply the tools to issues that arise in the workplace, the home, and beyond.

Participants will be free to use examples and practice exercises applicable to their particular interest.

Come along and learn how to manage relationships at home, at work, and with family and friends.

In this workshop you will learn:

  • How to identify the factors that lead to others behaving the way they do
  • How to create cooperation at all levels in your relationships
  • How to make your life more rewarding and empowered

    Who for:This workshop is open to everyone, no previous experience of NVC is needed.
    Trainers:Abel B’Hahn
    Language:English
    Cost:TBA

Vitamin L for your Relationship

A Weekend Getaway from Friday Evening to Sunday Evening 13th – 15th August

Do you sometimes just need to get away at the weekend?
Is there so little space in your life for the one you love, the person you live with?

Here is the chance to enjoy a weekend together in comfort and connection.
Two days of relaxation and fun, with the added bonus of learning some new skills to help you understand and communicate with each other more deeply.
This weekend, for a small group of couples will include the opportunities to come together and explore some exercises and experiences that will enhance the way you work together, play together, and share your lives.
There will be a mixture of verbal and play activities, group and couple time, along with relaxation and physical exercises, designed to help you get in touch with the emotional and physical habits that limit the joy and freedom in your relationship.
In addition to that, you will be free to go walking on the Great Wall and around the local mountains.
This weekend is for both long term married couples and those just embarking on a relationship.

A weekend together in comfort and connection.
A weekend of both fun and learning.
A mixture of verbal and play activities, group and couple time.

In this workshop, alongside the fun and learning skills, these exercises will provide you with relaxation and rejuvenation, and, if you take the chance to have couple sessions, will illuminate stuck patterns between the two of you. You will have the opportunity to discard old habits that don’t serve you and replace them with new habits that support the intimacy and connection between you.

Relaxation
• You will find Qigong and Chinese martial arts exercises that help de-stress and create both physical relaxation and rejuvenation.
• You will replenish your energy.
• You will sleep in the silence of the countryside.
• You will be able to walk on the Great Wall and around the local mountains.
Connection
• You will find simple ways to deeply connect with yourself and your environment.
• You will have the opportunity to learn some new skills to help you understand and communicate with each other more deeply.
Inspiration
• You will discover opportunities to heighten your awareness of patterns that prevent full access to your potential.
• You will find ideas to guide you to a sensitive and balanced way to approach your life.
• You will explore some exercises and experiences that will enhance the way you work together, play together, and share your lives.
And you will have some fun!

    Booking:For details please contact Rainer Schmitz  at rschmitz@chanhr.com
    Trainers:Abel B’Hahn, Ansgar Gerstner and Helen Tian
    Language:English (Chinese translation when needed)
    Venue:The Brickyard – see www.chancreativehouse.com
    Cost:RMB 4,888

From Conflict to Connection – a Foundation Training in Communication Skills

A two day workshop on Saturday and Sunday 29th and 30th May 2010

For photos and reviews, please check out www.nvc-shanghai.com


Create the Relationship You Really Want…

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If you are you looking for that special person…

If you aren’t even really sure what you want…

If you just want to learn how to attract the right sort of person…

Or if you want to make sure that you can build a deep connection with that right person…

This might be just the thing for you.

Our one-day workshop can help you:

  • Attract the right person into your life
  • Understand how a fulfilling intimate relationship can work
  • Know what you really need and really want
  • Connect with (the right!) people quickly and deeply

Listen First… The Most Important Skill

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Did you know that more relationship problems arise from poor listening than from any other element of the relationship?

Did you know that listening is a skill?

If you havent thought about how to listen effectively then you dont know enough about listening.

Come along to this half day workshop and learn new skills that will, in a stroke, transform your relationships.

In this workshop you will learn:

  • How to identify what might be behind the words the other person is using.
  • The difference between what they mean and what you would mean by those same words.
  • How to speak back what the person has said and make sure you have understood them.
  • How to separate fact from story, and needs from strategies.

Who Am I? What Do I Want? How Can I Make the Best of Me?

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If you dont know yourself, how can you choose the right relationship?

If you dont know yourself, how can you build a successful relationship?

Come along to this full day workshop and learn to understand yourself and how to manage yourself. With this understanding you will be able to transform your relationships.

In this workshop you will learn:

  • What you need, what works for you, and what are your priorities.
  • How to start creating yourself into the person you want to be.
  • The difference between thoughts and feelings and how to use your feelings productively.
  • How to control the voice inside your head, the voice that says things like ‘i am not good enough’.
  • Where are the fences that lock you in and how to find the gate.

True Intimacy

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What is Intimacy?

What does it provide?

What does it require?

Is it really worth it?

Maybe you want to develop the capacity for greater intimacy in your relationship, or you know there is something missing but cant identify what it is, or you just wonder what intimacy is.

This is a two day workshop, in which we will go deeper into the skills needed to create and maintain intimacy, and will work on the things that prevent us.

In this workshop you will learn:

  • Why intimacy is worth the effort.
  • What intimacy needs and the difference between intimacy and co-existence.
  • What are the benefits of intimacy, and the costs.
  • How to start creating intimacy and manage the fear that inhibits it.
  • What things destroy intimacy and what things it can deal with.

Create the Relationship You Really Want…

This event has passed.

If you are you looking for that special person…

If you aren’t even really sure what you want…

If you just want to learn how to attract the right sort of person…

Or if you want to make sure that you can build a deep connection with that right person…

This might be just the thing for you.

Come along and join us for this  one-day workshop and bring your life alive.

In this workshop you will learn:

  • How to attract the right person into your life
  • To understand how a fulfilling intimate relationship can work
  • To know what you really need and really want
  • How to connect with (the right!) people quickly and deeply